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Josh Feinberg: Hi, Josh here,
welcome to this week's Josh's

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JabGab, grab the jab before it
hits ya. Hey, I wanted to come

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to you today about a topic
called the resentment, right?

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Because a lot of people out
there and you know, someone

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watching this, you'll probably
have a resentment that you can

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think of something that's been
really bothering you for a long

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time that you really can't
shake. The problem is, is people

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hold on to those resentments and
it really controls their life

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and I see it on a daily basis,
especially recently, you know,

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there's, you know, certain
situations where you think of

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something that happened, it
could even be about five years

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ago, and you know, you cannot
shake it, it controls your

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emotions, that controls your
daily output, you know, it makes

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you completely think negatively,
it holds you back from your full

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potential, instead of focusing
on what you could be doing, you

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focus on what other people are
doing. And you really try to,

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you know, bring everybody down
with you. But the thing is, is

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you don't have to be that way.
Right? That's complete bullshit.

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If you think that bringing
everyone down with you is

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actually going to make you feel
better. Because at the end of

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the day, it's all about the
output that you can actually put

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in, you know, what are you doing
to be successful? What are you

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doing to, you know, make sure
that you're financially stable?

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What are you doing to make sure
that your family is okay? What

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are you doing to make sure that
you can be successful as

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possible. So the thing is, is
you just need to put all that

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bullshit aside, take
responsibility for your actions,

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and what you did in a certain
situation. And you need to move

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past that. Because at the end of
the day, you cannot control

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people, places, and things, and
most of the time, within a

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resentment, you have a huge part
of what you've actually done,

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and what you've actually did to
contribute to that resentment.

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Because, you know, for me, I've
done a lot of, you know, self

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seeking before and, you know,
had to write down certain

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resentments. In 99% of the time
when I do it, and I look to see,

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hey, what's my part? What did I
do in a certain situation?

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Usually it was me, and this can
be related to sales, this could

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be related to life, this could
be related to business, this

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could be related to anything.
You just have to take a look at

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what you've done. Because the
thing is, is if you're going to

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let other people and other
things, you know, control you,

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you need to stop, stop being a
****** *****, and just move past

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it. Have a great day. Have a
great week. Josh's JabGrab. T

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ank you.